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The Allender Center Podcast

Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Mike Boland

The Allender Center Podcast

The Allender Center

Psychology, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health, Christianity, Trauma, Health & Fitness, Theology

4.6628 Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2024

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

In our fourth and final episode of conversations with Narrative Focused Trauma Care alumni, we have the privilege of speaking with Rev. Mike Boland about the profound influence of his training and work in NFTC on both his personal life and ministry.

In the shadow of childhood abuse, Mike found himself trapped in what he describes as a perpetual "Groundhog Day" cycle. While he managed to get by, true healing remained elusive. However, the cycle was disrupted when he became a parent, prompting him to seek help to address his past traumas and strive to become the kind of parent he aspired to be.

This pivotal disruption led him to work with a skilled therapist who introduced him to the work of the Allender Center. Though his journey towards healing was tumultuous and marked with anger, Mike pressed on with courage. His desire for growth led him to participate in a Men’s Recovery Week and eventually complete Narrative Focused Trauma Care Level III training, ultimately becoming a Facilitator with the Allender Center.

We hope that this four-part series of candid conversations has inspired you and sparked your imagination regarding the possibilities of healing, both for yourself and others. Our aim has been to offer you a glimpse into the profound impact of embracing the life-changing experience of Narrative Focused Trauma Care.

Learn more about NFTC training at theallendercenter.org/trainings 

Please note that this episode contains discussions of sexual abuse, including childhood sexual abuse, and is intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is advised.

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to the Allender Center podcast.

0:06.7

I'm Dr. Dan Allender.

0:08.5

And I'm Rachel Clinton-Cenn.

0:10.1

We're fiercely committed to providing hope and healing to a fragmented world.

0:14.5

And restoration for the heart.

0:16.8

Thank you for joining us.

0:18.4

Let's get this conversation started.

0:36.1

You've heard me say this a few times, but I'm going to say it again, and that is people are fascinating. But if they serve with a deep sense of desire

0:43.1

and intentionality, the kingdom of God, those folks are really fascinating. And that is Mike Boland. Mike,

0:51.4

welcome. Yeah, thank you. Thanks for having me, Dan.

0:54.5

Thanks for having me, Rachel.

0:55.7

Yeah, it's good to see you.

0:57.1

Let me give just a little about you.

1:01.2

You are a pastor, which, for my standpoint, is the most difficult job on the face of the earth, except being a pastor's wife, which is even harder.

1:13.6

But just to start with that.

1:16.0

And not only that, I'm going to ask you to talk about it in a moment.

1:19.7

You're also a business owner.

1:21.3

So you're not just a pastor.

1:23.1

You're an entrepreneur, which is really dangerous.

1:31.3

And I'll just add that I know a lot of pastors who are entrepreneurs, and they're often somewhat narcissistically oriented, you're anything but that,

1:41.1

which is phenomenal to be both a pastor and an entrepreneur,

1:46.2

but we also have the privilege of having you as a facilitator in our narrative-focused trauma

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