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The Allender Center Podcast

Narrative Focused Trauma Care with Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth

The Allender Center Podcast

The Allender Center

Psychology, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health, Christianity, Trauma, Health & Fitness, Theology

4.6628 Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

After leading a marriage ministry in a large church and successfully launching their children into the world, Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth found themselves facing the unexpected collapse of their 24-year marriage.

In the aftermath, they began a quest to find healing and more understanding. As they searched for support in their church and friend community but still felt very alone. Mark said, “People didn’t know what to do with us.”

So as they navigated their own healing process, they also had the courage to imagine how they could support others experiencing similar heartbreak, creating spaces for healing that they themselves had struggled to find.

Inspired by Michelle's experience at a Story Workshop, the couple pursued Narrative Focused Trauma Care (NFTC) training together.

Both Mark and Michelle completed NFTC Level II training with the Allender Center, and they now offer coaching and story groups for other couples through The Soul Reserve. Michelle says, “We just want people to know that we can be really good people that are really broken - and we can fight for each other's goodness”

This is the second of our 4-part series where we’re inviting you to join us in listening to real stories from those who've gone through Narrative Focused Trauma Care training with the Allender Center. Through candid conversations with these remarkable individuals, our goal is to give you a glimpse into the profound impact of saying yes to this life-changing experience.

 

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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to the Allender Center podcast.

0:06.7

I'm Dr. Dan Allender.

0:08.7

And I'm Rachel Clinton-Centen.

0:10.5

We're fiercely committed to providing hope and healing to a fragmented world.

0:14.7

And restoration for the heart.

0:17.2

Thank you for joining us.

0:18.5

Let's get this conversation started.

0:29.6

Thank you for joining us. Let's get this conversation started. Rachel, we can say that almost every marriage. And the word almost is a euphemism. Almost every marriage is a mess.

0:39.2

I know yours is.

0:40.9

And I certainly know mine is.

0:44.4

So the reality that we, as we do, the work of narrative focus, trauma care, and that labor that we're inviting people to consider,

0:58.5

it's often the case that individuals come through with the impact, hopefully, deep, and rich

1:07.7

on behalf of their partner.

1:09.6

But there are occasional mad people, mad, as in

1:16.1

crazy, who choose to go through narrative focus trauma care as a couple. And we have a great privilege to be with Mark and Michelle Hollingsworth.

1:31.2

And you're mad.

1:33.9

I mean, you both came through the experience of dealing with your story, your marriage, your past,

1:42.8

your present, your future, all in the context of doing it together.

1:48.9

So, eventually, we want to jump into that. Any thoughts, Rachel, before we begin to ask Mark

1:55.8

and Michelle to enter into their story? Yeah, when you said mess, like, and crazy, all I thought about was Gabor Matei, who's a trauma

2:05.4

specialist.

2:06.0

He has a documentary called The Wisdom of Trauma, and a lot of it interviews his family.

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