Narcissists Show Who They Are In Conflicts
Surviving Narcissism with Dr. Les Carter
Dr. Les Carter
4.8 • 606 Ratings
🗓️ 21 November 2023
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
It's easy to be pleasant and friendly when you are in agreement with others. But Dr. C highlights how your level of maturity is on display in the midst of conflict. He discusses a narcissist's starting point when you have differences, then gives a stark contrast by identifying the healthy alternatives.
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| 0:00.0 | Dr. C here. Before we begin, I'd like to make sure that you're aware that this podcast is |
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| 0:55.4 | And many thanks to the people at BetterHelp for sponsoring our podcast. |
| 1:04.9 | Thanks for joining us for another episode of the Surviving Narcissism Podcast with your host, Dr. |
| 1:10.1 | Les Carter. |
| 1:11.3 | I'm Michaela, the program director. And in today's episode, Dr. Carter will discuss how |
| 1:15.9 | narcissists show who they are in conflicts. |
| 1:24.9 | Hello, Team Healthy. |
| 1:26.2 | I'm so pleased to be with you once again here today. All right, I want to ask you a simple question as we get started today. And that is, as you examine the closest relationships that you have, whether it's in your marriage or with your kids or extended family or friendships or work, etc, and organizations, do you ever have conflict? |
| 1:46.9 | Do you have moments where it's like, we're just not on the same page here, and we need to |
| 1:51.6 | figure out where we're going to go with this because something is hindering us from having |
| 1:56.4 | that sense of coordination. Let's see if we can figure it out. Well, of course, virtually any relationship |
| 2:03.2 | is going to have that kind of conflict. Now, one of the primary things that I would coach people on |
| 2:10.2 | when I would be in the therapy office with the individuals is I would say you can tell a lot about an |
| 2:16.9 | individual's character, not by watching how they act |
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