Narcissists get worse when you leave
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 3 September 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
Why do narcissists get worse when you leave them? Why do they overreact when you choose yourself and break up with them and choose a better life?
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| 0:00.0 | So, narcissists absolutely get worse when you leave them. |
| 0:07.0 | And that's me speaking from experience. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. I have been left before. I've gotten worse when those relationships have ended. |
| 0:15.0 | When people have left me, I've gotten worse, especially if they try to come back. |
| 0:19.0 | That's what we're talking about today, y'all, |
| 0:21.1 | how narcissistic people, if you are the one that leaves them, how they will absolutely get |
| 0:27.8 | worse with you. They will absolutely, y'all, absolutely. Y'all hear what I say absolutely like that? |
| 0:33.9 | I mean it. They will absolutely find a way to get worse to disrupt your life to disrupt |
| 0:40.2 | your peace this is the mentality this is the mindset of narcissistic people like we all know I think |
| 0:46.8 | we all should know if you don't if we don't know now we know that narcissistic people have huge |
| 0:52.8 | huge egos like the ego so damn big the ego so big the ego so big is |
| 0:57.2 | insane right so when you hurt my feelings when you break my heart when you leave me you're going to |
| 1:04.6 | crack my ego you might cause a narcissistic injury you might damn near cause a narcissistic |
| 1:09.4 | collapse you know i feel like I know |
| 1:12.7 | people ask like well Lee what's the difference between a collapse and an injury an injury |
| 1:16.3 | it's kind of like you know me I hurt my leg I pulled my ham strain the other day running at the |
| 1:19.6 | track that's an injury that's a narcissistic injury you hurt me hurt my ego a little bit right |
| 1:23.8 | a collapse is when my ego is destroyed isn't that that now my bot? Now I'm all, I |
| 1:28.4 | bring every bone to my body, right? Now I can't move. That's a collapse. Like so when you leave a |
| 1:35.1 | narcissist, sometimes you can cause a narcissistic collapse, especially if it ruins their |
| 1:40.7 | reputation. If it destroys their ego, this is why i recommend that if you do decide to leave a |
| 1:46.6 | narcissist you going back is hello sweater weather bring on cozy duvetays crisp air and crunchy leaves |
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