Orgasmic Enlightenment, where the sexual and spiritual come together.

I'm Kimanami and I'm a holistic sex and relationship coat and a vaginal weightlifter.

In this show, we explore all things intimate.

I believe that our sexual energy is life force, creative energy and we can use it to shape our worlds

strengthen our relationships and self-actualize. I blend the most avant-garde information from

neuroscience, ancient sexual practices like tantra and Taoism to renegade wellness modalities to

show you how to create gourmet sex in your

lives. Come one, come all. Narcissists, everyone's love to hate, aka it's always the narcissist's fault.

Ah, narcissists, the internet's favorite love to hate villain.

I first started hearing this term applied in the vernacular about 10 years ago. Of course, I knew about

the psychological term of a narcissist based on the Greek mythological story of narcissists, who

stares adoringly at his own reflection in a pool. The loose definition from that perspective

is someone who is obsessed with themselves and their image. But over the past few years,

this idea seems to have taken flight to include any person

who is abusive and in any variety of ways. I hear this come up a lot whenever I talk about the

importance of chemistry and attraction in relationships. People are often quick to chime in and say how they had so much

chemistry with their ex-partner and they turned out to be a narcissist. And therefore,

chemistry bad. Chemistry can't be trusted. I'm going to put forward a potential controversial take here, what else is new,

on the idea of narcissists and why people are so obsessed with them. Someone said to me a few

years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who has not healed their trauma, and they

aren't interested in healing it. I like this definition.

It is simple and apropos. When I talk about chemistry, the way I frame it is that chemistry

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