Narcissists Crumble When You Choose This Path
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
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🗓️ 9 June 2025
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
The best way to stop focusing and ruminating about narcissists in your life is to close your eyes and fall in love with the self. Ancient Persian Philosopher Rumi is an excellent example of how to break up with, let go of, divorce, and go no contact with narcissists in your life. In this lesson, you will learn what Rumi has to say about releasing narcissists from your life, and why doing so is terrifying yet brings emotional freedom at the same time.
Healing from narcissistic abuse, requires that you release resistance to the pain manipulation, gaslighting, triangulation, smear campaigns and discard have created. Through radical self awareness, and acceptance, we discover the power of sacred wisdom as it pertains to choosing nonresistance. A narcissist will never follow you into solitude. When you embrace solitude, narcissists will run away because in solitude their masks fall. And that's why you must travel into the silence within. Codependency is akin to spiritual death. It implies you are living in denial of what is, and running from reality. The answer lies in climbing the ladder of the mind, from the subconscious to the higher conscious realms. But first, we must figure out where you are now and at what level of awareness do you reside.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Breakdown to Breakthrough, the podcast that empowers you to transform your life |
| 0:04.8 | by awakening to your true authentic self. I'm Lisa A. Romano, your host, as an award-winning author |
| 0:10.6 | and certified life coach, I've dedicated my life to helping others understand the incredible |
| 0:16.0 | power of an organized mind. I believe that true empowerment begins with awakening to our false self. |
| 0:23.2 | I created the Conscious Healing Academy, a three-part coaching and brain retraining program designed |
| 0:28.6 | to help individuals triumph over trauma and turn the breakdowns into powerful breakthroughs. |
| 0:34.5 | My mission is to support you on your journey toward mental and emotional |
| 0:38.6 | regeneration through conscious and deliberate awakening. In this podcast, I'll share insights, |
| 0:44.5 | tools, and transformative stories that will illuminate the path to healing and self-discovery. |
| 0:49.9 | We live in a world that glorifies relationships, connections, and belonging. |
| 1:00.7 | But the truth is, until we learn how to go into the silence within, where our false self hides, |
| 1:05.6 | dear one, we remain trapped in illusions, and narcissists know it. |
| 1:13.2 | Rumi, the 13th century Persian poet and mystic, spoke often about the importance of solitude and the inward journey. |
| 1:22.2 | His wisdom can remind us that real love, real healing, and real understanding come first from going within, |
| 1:30.3 | from reconnecting with the divine self inside of us, not from chasing approval from our parents or from narcissists that are outside of us or for anything superficial. So today, we're going to explore |
| 1:35.9 | how Rumi's wisdom can help us detach from narcissistic relationships, heal codependency, |
| 1:42.4 | and walk the road back to our authentic self. This is a really |
| 1:46.6 | important topic, and if you use philosophy to your advantage, you will be able to heal childhood trauma. |
| 1:52.6 | So let's talk about the illusion of connection. When we have unhealed childhood trauma, |
| 1:58.9 | we often believe just automatically that love comes from others, |
| 2:03.3 | that our sense of self is tied to approval. We become trapped in patterns of people-pleasing, |
| 2:09.5 | fawning, and over-attaching to others, especially to narcissists who mirror back to us |
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