Narcissistic Spouse Turns Adult Children Against You
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 806 Ratings
🗓️ 26 September 2022
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, learn about the dirty games narcissists play with adult children to turn them against the other parent. Learn about how a narcissist turns their own children into flying monkeys and manipulates their minds against the other parent. Lisa A. Romano learned these lessons the hard way. Listen to her share what she thinks you can do when your adult children reject you after you separate and or begin to divorce a narcissist.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather |
| 0:25.8 | than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you |
| 0:33.5 | spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.5 | So today we're going to be talking about what happens when narcissistic spouses use |
| 0:45.1 | your children as bonds against you. |
| 0:47.9 | The topic of parental alienation and spousal disregard, in my opinion, is a very important topic. If you love someone who is high |
| 0:58.6 | on the narcissistic spectrum, if you love someone who has actually has been diagnosed with |
| 1:04.1 | NPD and you have children, it is not uncommon for them to make your children a target. They will use almost any tactic in the book |
| 1:14.6 | to distort reality and to control your children's perception of you for their gain. What is the |
| 1:23.5 | gain? Narcissistic Supply. When we are dealing with people who have high narcissistic |
| 1:29.1 | traits, we're dealing with people who are in it to win it. They see the divorce proceeding as an |
| 1:35.7 | opportunity to take the ball and go home. So if you have children, then it's not uncommon for them |
| 1:43.2 | to begin to tell your children's stories |
| 1:46.2 | about you that are completely false or they are distorted or they're skewed to make you look |
| 1:52.8 | bad. And in my coaching practice, I often hear clients tell me these horrific stories about how |
| 1:59.6 | they were loving fathers, they were loving mothers, |
| 2:03.8 | and once the divorce got underway, the children seemed to go against them and forgot all the |
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