Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Domestic Violence (2019 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 10 March 2024
⏱️ 38 minutes
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October 10 , 2019
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
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| 0:00.0 | Psychology in Seattle. |
| 0:07.0 | Hey deserving listeners, in this episode I'm going to talk about narcissistic personality disorder and also domestic violence or intimate partner violence. |
| 0:16.8 | I get a lot of emails about narcissism, borderline, and relationship difficulties, but I think this email borderline and |
| 0:25.0 | it's something that I haven't really talked about on the podcast before and it's something that I've treated a lot in my practice |
| 0:32.0 | which is the relationship situation in which someone is |
| 0:38.1 | being very domineering and emotionally abusive, and the victim of that abuse is starting to emerge from that abuse and |
| 0:48.8 | understand and see it for what it is which abusive, and how personality disorders often play a role in all of this. |
| 0:57.4 | And this emailer has a very interesting question because, you know, on this podcast I often promote empathy for everyone including people with |
| 1:05.9 | narcissistic personality disorder and what she's asking is you know I I think my husband has narcissistic personality disorder but and from your |
| 1:16.4 | podcast it sounds like I'm supposed to have empathy but at the same time I want to |
| 1:20.2 | leave this person and so let's get into that. But first let's introduce |
| 1:24.4 | the podcast. This is called Psychology in Seattle and I'm your host Dr Kirk Honda and I'm |
| 1:29.2 | a therapist and a professor. All right, let's read the email from this anonymous patron. |
| 1:33.0 | She writes, |
| 1:34.0 | slowly over the last few months of therapy, I have come to realize that my husband is |
| 1:39.8 | emotionally abusive to me. |
| 1:42.0 | It has gotten progressively worse over time with him and |
| 1:46.7 | significantly worse since we had a baby a year ago. I went to therapy thinking everything was my fault and that there was clearly |
| 1:56.2 | something wrong with me. By talking it out with my therapist I have realized that |
| 2:00.8 | my husband has been emotionally abusing me and making me feel like everything was my fault |
| 2:05.8 | and making me feel like something was wrong with me. |
| 2:09.6 | We have been trying, me and my husband have been trying to do couples counseling as well with a different therapist, but he has been |
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