Naomi & The Hero Playing Intimidating Abuser - Narcissist Abuse, Domestic Violence, Coercive Control

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Relationships, Education, True Crime, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2023

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Naomi was just out of a failed marriage, living on her mother's couch, when a wolf in sheep's clothing swooped in to save her. He helped Naomi move out, got her a job, and lavished her with expensive gifts. However, once they got an apartment of their own, Naomi's abuser began to show signs of coercive control. It's a story of shame, guilt, financial abuse, gaslighting, putdowns, sexual coercion, sexual assault, jealousy, coercive control, intimidation, isolation, rage, feeling trapped, minimization, fawning, threats, and the support of your friends. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses sexual coercion and sexual assault. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Naomi,
0:06.0	and Naomi was in a controlling relationship with an intimidating abuser.
0:11.1	It's a story of shame, the hero, isolation, rage, feeling trapped, and the support of your friends.
0:43.9	Music Trapped and the support of your friends. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:50.1	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Naomi.
0:51.1	How are you?
0:52.5	I'm good.
0:52.9	How are you?
0:57.7	I am doing well. Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Naomi is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page,
1:03.2	or is a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:08.3	There, you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse.com or fill out our guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email
1:11.8	at Narcissist Apocalypse.g.g.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button,
1:16.6	please do send it in the format that we ask for, and please just keep on sending in your stories.
1:21.7	We can never have enough stories, so please send those in. And a content warning for today's episode as we do discuss sexual coercion in this episode,
1:32.1	sexual assault in this episode as well.
1:35.1	So that is your content warning for this episode.
1:39.8	And today you're going to hear Naomi's story,
1:42.5	and Naomi was very young when getting into this relationship.
1:49.5	And Naomi was coming out of a relationship, getting into this one.
1:55.0	And, you know, embarrassment and shame becomes a big part of why people stay sometimes and, you know, trying to stick to these
2:01.9	things. And this is also the story of, you know, someone who finds you in a bad spot and you think
2:09.0	that you owe them and they tell you that they owe them. And it's a hard thing to kind of wrap your
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