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David, welcome to the program.

Hello, thanks for taking my call.

Thank you. What can I do for you?

I'm just nervous and scared. I keep having the same argument with my wife.

Tell me what the same argument is. Just go to what the argument is about.

I really don't know other than there's times that I need her.

She tells me she wants space and so I try to stay away.

But ultimately I need to be close to her.

And unfortunately it always comes out as you don't do this when I talk to her.

And so she takes that hard that she can never be what I need.

I'm not trying to be negative towards her.

Okay, David. David. David.

You may not be a good match.

So you've got to figure out how to get appropriate needs met in an appropriate way.

If she's not the kissy huggy, sit down and listen to your feelings type of lady,

then you have to stop demanding that and have a minister or a mentor,

therapist, somebody else you talk to, guy buddy, when you have those needs

to talk about your feelings, if that's what we're talking about,

if that's not something she's comfortable with,

you know, let me just say one thing, lower your voice.

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