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I am a married man and I have a wife that is a spender and I just want to know what can I do

to get her more on board with the Dave Ransy plan. We went to FPU.

I watched a show pretty much every single day, and I try to tell her things.

I send her YouTube shorts, and I just feel like there's nothing I can say or do that makes her change her ways, and I don't know what to do anymore.

I think we're going to phone a friend.

We're going to call Winston, Rachel's husband, and ask him how he dealt with Rachel being a spender.

Perfect combo, show her.

If we can do that, I'm cool with that.

Okay, well, my question is, do you, how are you approaching it?

Like, have you guys sat down and had actual real conversations, or has it been,

not that it's passive-aggressive to send clips of the... Are you throwing Ramsey or YouTube

grenades? Is that all you're doing? No, no, no, no. So we have had heart to heart. And what's her

rebuttal to you? There is no rebuttal.

That's the thing.

The thing is, this when the example is we, we, my, my brother's about to have a baby

and she decided to throw a baby shower.

And we spent about 700 on that.

And we're in baby step.

Because of that, we're back in baby step one and that's the

kind where i'm like you know i and she's super nice she's a great person super giving a little too

giving sometimes when yeah we need to take care of our stuff you know but i i don't know how or

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