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My Wife Is More Spiritual β€” How Do I Lead Her?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.8 β€’ 3.8K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 9 November 2020

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

As a husband, I know that God calls me to lead my family. But what if my wife is more capable and more spiritually mature than I am?

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0:00.0

Well, if a wife is more spiritually mature than her husband, how does her husband lead

0:10.9

her spiritually?

0:11.9

It's not an uncommon situation.

0:14.1

It's not an uncommon question in the inbox and it's up next in an email from a young

0:17.8

man, Pastor John, hello.

0:19.6

How do I lead my wife spiritually when she is more spiritually mature than I am?

0:23.4

I became a true follower of Christ years after my wife and her spiritual maturity is far

0:28.8

greater than mine.

0:30.1

For most of my marriage, I have been a poor leader of my family, especially in spiritual

0:33.9

matters.

0:34.9

But by the grace of God, I am growing in my faith and I'm slowly starting to take the

0:39.5

reins of leadership in my family.

0:42.4

My wife's discernment, desire, and dependence on the Lord are incredible examples, and

0:47.2

I often ask her advice and discernment in my search and reading through Scripture.

0:53.0

How, Pastor John, can I lead her better?

0:56.3

Let's start with the foundations.

0:58.2

I'm going to get to very specific responses to his question, how to lead a woman who's

1:03.7

ahead of you like this.

1:05.2

But I just think way more important than those particular suggestions are getting foundations

1:11.2

clear.

1:12.2

So let's do that for a few minutes.

1:14.4

Ephesians 5, 23 to 25.

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