Hey, this is Sam.

This is John.

Your OG, OK Storytime podcast host. And we got some great stories coming up. Before that, we have a quick two-minute break from the sponsors that keep the show a lot. This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. My wife is furious. I'm not dating anyone else after I agree to an open marriage. Now you're just looking for a reason to be mad. My wife and I have been together for 13 years and married for 10. We have a 7-year-old A-D-H-D son who needs a lot of adult supervision. My wife came out as bi and non-monogamous last year. I agreed to open up the marriage so she could explore that side of her. By the way,

this comes from deleted. And if you want to submit your own stories, go to the R-slash, OK, Storytime, Subbredit. I'm Sophia. I'm Matt. And we're here to give good advice goofily, but we don't have all the answers. We only know what we'd do, so let us know what you would do in the comments. And O.P. says, I wasn't thrilled about it, but one, it meant a lot to her.

Two, sometimes you just got to do crap you don't want. And three, I have a bunch of blood pressure

related issues that are making it hard for me to keep up in that area. She has an online boyfriend.

She's hooked up with a few times, and she's also gone on a couple of

dates with different women. I am technically allowed to date other people as well, in the same

sense that a vegetarian is allowed to eat steak tartar. I have zero interest, and even if I were

interested between work and our son, I flat out don't have time.

Lately, my wife has told me she feels like I'm guilt-tripping her and martyring myself by not

taking advantage of the open part of our open relationship.

When I tell her I'm not interested, she gets angry and says I'm being unfair and hurts her

feelings by not participating. Twice now,

she's threatened to break up with her boyfriend and at this point I honestly couldn't care less if

she did and I know she won't. I am not a patient man by default and what little patience I have

is all but gone here. She already gets to F other people and come back to our home, and that's

not good enough for her anymore? I've been thinking about threatening divorce, but I don't want to

make threats in general, and especially not until I'm 100% committed to following through,

and I'm not there yet. We are in couples therapy. Our therapist is useless on this issue.

She just makes us automatically denigrate ourselves by saying, the story I'm telling myself is whenever we talk about our feelings.

One time, she charged us $400 for a podcast recommendation.

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