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Yeah, my wife and I have been married for about three years now, and we decided when we got

pregnant with our first kid that she'd be a stay-at-home mom. I was able to financially support

that all as well.

And then a year into our marriage, when she stopped working,

found out she had about $60,000 in student debt that she was paying on.

That's awkward, huh?

Yeah, yeah. So with that being said, um, that's awkward, huh? Yeah, yeah.

So with that being said, um, it's a private loan and we're three years into our marriage,

second kids here, um, just bought a house because it was cheaper to do so than renting with where we're at.

And now I'm kind of feeling the push and pull of having her get a job because what was a

2% interest rate is now a 10% interest rate because it's a variable loan.

And she co-signed on that loan with her mom.

So feeling a bit of obligation to keep these payments up and active, even though it's pulling quite a bit from our monthly income.

Hey, bro, you're playing at the periphery here. This isn't the main issue. The main issue is the woman you dedicated your life to and said,

I do to, lied to you and had a huge debt and you were making decisions and y'all were moving

full steam ahead with one version of your life not knowing there was another version.

Have you dealt with that?

We call it financial infidelity around here and we use that level of, that depth of language

because it's that serious.

Yeah.

So have you dealt with it? Yeah, have y'all dug into that? Yeah. So have you dealt with it?

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