Does that make your daughter also your half sibling?

Um.

Welcome back to other people's lives. I'm Joe Sanegado.

I'm Greg Dybeck.

Just want to give a quick shout out to all our Patron supporting the show over at patreon.com slash opl show where if you sign up,

you get bonus episodes as well as access to our discord and our little community that we've built. And sometimes you get to talk to previous guests that we've had on the show.

Yep. And today we'll jump right into this one. We've had some interesting and complicated family dynamics. I guess you could call it on the show.

We've talked about cheating. We've talked about hiding pregnancies from partners, but from this topic alone, this might take the cake for, you know,

difficulty of kind of wrapping your head around this situation. So we have our guests on the line. I want to thank you for coming on the show today.

Yeah, absolutely.

So let's just confirm this to start because you sent us an email saying that you discovered that your wife was having an affair with your father.

And then they had a child that you are now raising as your own. Is that correct?

Yes, it sounds like some old school daytime, you know, craziness, but television craziness, but that is true. It is all accurate.

So how did you first find out or suspect that your wife and father were having an affair?

So just to kind of go back a little bit, my wife and I are still married, actually. And we from the start of our relationship, my right at the beginning of our relationship, her father actually had passed away from cancer.

And in place of that, she was kind of going through some dark times and my father and her kind of sparked up a, like a little bit of a father daughter relationship, I guess, or soon to be father and law daughter relationship kind of thing.

And they would text back and forth every once in a while sort of thing. It wasn't anything at that point.

And I was okay with it because I kind of saw him as like a stepping in place of this whole that had been in, you know, put in her life.

And so that was okay.

But as the years went on, you know, they spoke a lot. They text. They were constantly texting. We lived pretty far away from each other for a while.

So I, you know, never really assumed anything got me, you know, as far as, you know, thinking anything weird about it.

There were times where I'd, you know, kind of bring it up and be like, you're always texting him kind of thing, you know, just sort of jealous that, like, how come you never text me? You're always texting him kind of thing.

...