My wife just recently broke down and said that she does not enjoy having sex with me,

and she's the only person I've been with. I waited until marriage. She did not. I've tried everything, man. I don't know where to go from here.

Is she seeing someone else? I knew you were going to ask them. I don't know where to go from here. Is she seeing someone else?

I knew you were going to ask them.

I'm not sure.

What's going on?

What's going on?

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And my wife just recently broke down and said that she does not enjoy having sex with me.

And, um, I've tried everything, man. I i don't i don't know where to go from here

oh my gosh that hurts huh yeah when she sat down and told you this and this is going to help frame

how i answer the question um when she told you this was this, was it a conversation that was compassionate and honest?

Or was she, did she approach you with this as like an accusation, as frustrated as, like, a less than, as a power play?

You get what I'm saying?

Mm-hmm.

How'd she approach you?

Frustration and somewhat anger.

Okay.

And disappointment.

Okay.

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