My wife cheated with eight guys and then said that I needed to be more responsible.

So I maliciously comply.

The background here is kind of long, but it's also important.

I am a happily divorced dad of two beautiful kids, a five-year-old girl and an almost four-year-old

son. My ex and I met in my home state of Illinois. She was a

Navy brat, so her family was from Texas. We fell in love very quickly, got married after a year,

and was expecting my daughter after three months. We found out she was preggers with my son

almost four to six months after my daughter was born. A month after he was born, I found out that

she was cheating on me with at least five guys. Later found out it was about eight. Obviously,

I filed for divorce. I got the lawyer, changed my banking accounts and presented her with papers.

The first copy was rejected for a reason I can't quite remember. Upon revision, I had my lawyer

also changed the custody from me having the kids every other weekend to every single weekend.

Much to his surprise, she signed it. We shared the kids accordingly. She was really angry, but there was

nothing she could do about it. And when she and I could no longer afford to live in the same state, she moved back to Texas.

Fast forward two years without seeing the kids, I couldn't afford to see them, except on Christmas,

and I got out of the Navy, moved back home, and I got the kids for three months.

I was appalled by their development delays. Both kids were rated in the bottom 5% of kids in their

age. My daughter didn't have a clue about potty training at three, was barely speaking and had no

awareness of adult authority. My son wasn't even close to walking, was non-verbal, wouldn't eat

most meats and was afraid of grass. After the three months when I returned them,

my daughter would listen to adults, was potty trained, and speaking in almost complete sentences.

My son was walking, saying some words and hand signals, and eating a variety of different foods.

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