My wife cheated so I tricked her it's a publicly admitting to having the affair and having an

STD. In college I met the woman who I thought was my one. We dated for about two years and had a big

wedding after a 10 month engagement. Her family was pretty well to do in a small southern town.

We were both continuing our educations and I was also working to support us. I was pursuing a

master's in engineering while she was finishing her doctorate in anthropology. Over the summer,

an opportunity came up for her to make some extra money going as an aide and on a religious

studies trip to Jamaica. I didn't hesitate when she asked me about it. I mean she was going to

visit Jamaica and get paid for it. I saw no downside other than missing her being at home for six

weeks. Little did I know at the time she had been doing it with the professor the whole time.

He had hung out with us, smoked with us, drank with us and I considered him a friend.

He arranged a trip for a couple of months and it was a big getaway for them to

bang all over the island. I was clueless and happy when about the weeks while she was gone,

taking extra shifts so I could match what she made in our account and surprise her.

What a dummy I was, right? One of the students in the trip actually seek me out to clue me in.

I didn't believe him until I started looking for evidence on my own.

I broke down and checked her text while she was sleeping and there was nothing there.

There was also a few VMs so I decided to listen and there it was. A message from the giant

jerk saying how excited it was that I almost caught them. I opened up her laptop and hit the

emails after that. It was piles and piles of stuff making fun of me for not knowing,

doing it in our bed and laughing about it. There was so much and I was so heartbroken.

Still, I was too hurt to take any action. I was lost. I had no idea what to do so I sat on it for

a couple of weeks and acted normally as I could. I noticed everything now. I felt so stupid for

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