My Story: From Beta Cuck to NLP Dating Coach for Men
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 10 November 2025
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
In this raw episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing opens up about his personal journey — from struggling with panic attacks and agoraphobia to becoming a confident, high-value man and the top NLP-based dating coach in the world.
Mark reveals the painful mistakes that shaped his transformation, the key mindset shifts that changed everything, and how any man can reprogram his thoughts and behavior to become the strongest version of himself.
Key Takeaways:
- The rock-bottom moment that triggered Mark's personal transformation.
- The brutal breakup that pushed Mark to confront his own weakness.
- How NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) helped rewire his thoughts to completely eliminate his struggles.
- How Mark built The Unapologetic Man Podcast to help other men become absolute masters with women.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:00:35] – What inspired Mark to share his full story
[00:02:30] – Highschool, dating Crystal, and Mark's epiphany about being needy
[00:09:17] – Client testimonial: John
[00:10:14] – Living in Japan as an English teacher and wedding announcer
[00:11:33] – Mark's experience with panic attacks and agoraphobia
[00:13:07] – Being deported from Japan, discovering NLP and living in Hawaii
[00:15:42] – Moving to California and getting stabbed in the back
[00:16:53] – 2 years of non-stop seduction practice
[00:17:49] – Moving to Colorado and pursuing a career as a seduction coach
[00:22:02] – Starting The Unapologetic Man Podcast with John Anthony
[00:25:09] – Email from Thomas
[00:25:55] – Final thoughts and next episode preview
Connect With Mark:
Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/
Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/
Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula
About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | My Instagram guy, Rujul, he basically runs my Instagram page. He's like, look, a lot of guys on Instagram want to hear your story. They want to know about you. There's a lot of failures that I'm going to talk about. And part of the reason I feel I am a successful dating coach is because I've had tons of failures. In fact, not only have I been a complete and utter beta cuck with women, but I also failed |
| 0:22.4 | for 10 years in this business. |
| 0:24.2 | Even after failure, after failure, everything can change for you as it did for me if you |
| 0:30.0 | don't fucking quit. |
| 0:32.5 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. |
| 0:35.3 | What is up, you champions? |
| 0:36.6 | Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. |
| 0:39.5 | Now, today, I'm going to tell you my story. |
| 0:42.6 | My Instagram guy, Rejul, he basically runs my Instagram page. |
| 0:46.1 | He's like, look, a lot of guys on Instagram want to hear your story. |
| 0:49.5 | They want to know about you. |
| 0:50.6 | And I have been emailed throughout the years people asking me about my story, |
| 0:55.6 | but it kind of feels a little bit cocky to like be telling you about my story. I've said |
| 1:00.6 | stories here and there, but like the whole thing, I don't know, man, I've just avoided it because |
| 1:04.7 | it feels like I'm just being really full of myself. Now, there's a lot of failures that I'm going |
| 1:09.4 | to talk about. and part of the reason |
| 1:10.9 | I feel I am a successful dating coach is because I've had tons of failures. In fact, not only have I |
| 1:17.8 | been a complete and utter ban of cuck with women, a complete and utter failure, trying to use my |
| 1:23.5 | tears as lubricant for sex, which is a story I'm going to tell you today. But I also failed for 10 |
| 1:28.5 | years in this business. Failure after failure, which I'm going to tell too. And that's kind of why I |
| 1:33.7 | think I think I'm a good coach. So please don't think that this episode's going to be me, just |
| 1:38.3 | blowing smoke up my own ass and fluffing my own feathers, going down Flex Avenue, telling |
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