My Step by Step Formula to Build SEXUAL TENSION With a Woman (SOOOO GOOD!!!)

The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women

Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men

Dating, Seduction, Masculinity, Girlfriend, Women, Pua, Masculine, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Nlp, Girls, Attraction, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

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In this powerful new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lets you behind the curtain of an actual coaching call with his clients—real men investing in themselves and learning how to master attraction. This time, the focus is on one of the most electrifying aspects of game: sexual tension.

Mark breaks down his proven, step-by-step formula for sparking sexual tension in the very first conversation. You’ll hear how to recognize signs of attraction, when to make the move, and how to use playful teasing and imaginative scenarios to take a girl from curious to absolutely hooked. With vivid examples—from the “bad kisser” question, to astrology-based routines, to playful “makeup fight” scenarios—you’ll see exactly how to create an irresistible atmosphere that turns sparks into flames.

Key Takeaways:

- Why you should never hit on a girl until she’s already attracted to you.

- The four pillars of attraction: control, value, sexual tension, and qualifying.

- Mark’s three most potent ways to build sexual tension on the spot.

- Why talking about intimacy—but not acting on it immediately—skyrockets her attraction.

- How to confidently steer conversations into playful, sexual territory without being needy.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode Preview
[00:01:04] – The V cut protocol: attraction first, hit on her after
[00:02:29] – Starting the sexual tension process
[00:04:13] – Should you make out with girls at the nightclub?
[00:05:33] – The “bad kisser” question that sparks instant sexual tension
[00:06:29] – Play-fighting routines and astrology banter
[00:08:00] – Use roleplaying to hook her emotions
[00:10:31] – Mark’s upcoming SEX MASTERCLASS
[00:15:09] – Using hobbies and hypo stories to build sexual tension
[00:17:57] – Teasing post-fight make up sex to build insane sexual attraction
[00:19:22] – Episode wrap up and masterclass details

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexualTension #ConfidenceForMen #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement

Transcript

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0:00.0	I got a really special treat for you today. I'm going to let you listen in to last night's
0:05.3	coaching call with the boys. It was absolutely an awesome call. We had a great time. I have so much
0:10.9	respect for these guys, these dudes who invest in themselves in order to make their lives better.
0:15.6	We are going to talk about sexual tension. How to build sexual tension in the first conversation to really ramp up
0:23.3	her attraction for you. We have the four pillars of attraction. Then what I do is I give you
0:28.4	guys three really potent ways to really blow that attraction into an enormous flame.
0:35.3	So I'm going to let you guys peek behind the current today of real champions who invest in themselves
0:39.8	and the kind of things that we talk about,
0:41.8	the kind of lessons we teach.
0:43.2	So enjoy the content.
0:44.5	Let's get into it.
0:46.2	Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast.
0:49.4	The only podcast that's all about self-improvement,
0:52.2	confidence, success, women,
0:54.0	and being a man without making any apologies for it.
1:03.9	I got to make that abundantly clear. You don't hit on a girl until she's attracted to you.
1:08.4	Thumbs up or thumbs down. You guys get that. You got it. It's in your brain skull. All of you. Reagan, you with me? All right, buddy. Yes, sir. Don't hit on them until they're attracted to you. This is one of the biggest mistakes. This is why we have the V and the V cut protocol. Right here, we could say that this is attraction.
1:28.8	Until you get attraction, you're only staying over here. Value in frame, value frame, value frame,
1:35.3	right? Maybe a little bit of qualifying, but I don't want to, I'm not going to break the rule.
1:39.3	I'm just going to, I'm just going to say value frame. Okay, now you get three, four signs of attraction.
1:45.0	She touches you.
1:46.7	Big sign.
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