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Hi, thank you very much. So, quick question for you. I've got a 25-year-old who's been out of college three years.

In IT, does contract work, which is not, you know, he's looking for something long-term,

but, you know, what he has right now is contract work, which is time-limited.

In between the three jobs that he's had, he's known he's had to do certifications,

but he never quite

seems to get it done. And then he'll go in and now, he'll set like goals for himself, like to

exercise, to do this and to do this. And then a couple of weeks later, he may tweak it.

Okay. Kay, Kay, Kay, leave him alone. Leave him alone. I don't even want you to know what he, shush, I don't want you

to know what he's doing on a daily basis. I don't want you to know that anymore. Okay. So whoever's

telling you what's happening, say, you know what? It's his life. He's on his path. People have sometimes a bumpy path until they find their way.

I respect that he's going to do that.

If you have to say that to him or anybody else.

So just give him hugs and support them.

No, just a hugs.

I knew just a hug.

Oh, I meant supportive by being a mom, you know, what mom.

You can make him peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. That's okay.

I guess I could do that. Okay. And that's indefinitely, right? I mean, we're talking.

Yes, I don't want you to, unless there's something that he really needs

your input. Right. If he asks. If he really needs your input, asking doesn't imply he really needs it.

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