Hi, I'm Matthew Hussey, welcome to Love Life. It's a privilege to be able to offer you

bite-sized bits of advice on this podcast that you can use every day. But what if you're

ready for a big transformation and you want to do it now? You want to reinvent your career

or finally find lasting love or break free from the self-doubt that's holding you back

from living the abundant life you were meant to live. If you're saying yes, Matt, that's

me. I'm going to tell you exactly how to do just that at the end of today's show. So

make sure you stay tuned. First, let's get to today's episode.

I have a fun little concept for you today. It's going to be quick, but it's important

and it's something that's essential for your dates. See, a lot of things that go wrong

with dating relate to the way that people organize their dates. When they go out, they spend

a lot of time in a restaurant or somewhere pretty awkward for a long period of time and

they don't actually set themselves up to win. They set themselves up for a very awkward

stressful date that they cannot escape from. I mean, that, if you think about it, is the

problem with going to dinner for a date is you, if you're having a bad time and you

just ordered your main course, that's a problem because you know you're now going to be there

for another 45 minutes minimum with no ability to escape until the check arrives and that's

without dessert. So don't set yourself up for dates that are hard to escape from and

it's not just about the negative of how do I get away, but it's also about the positive.

How do I create a date that eases into it and makes me look like I'm high value, makes

gives us lots of opportunity for spontaneous fun and doesn't feel like this weird ordeal,

this thing that this process we have to go through because that's what dating feels

like for far too many people. It's this process and it gets really, I almost think you've

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