You tell me, like, racial remarks

and like massagistic remarks towards like me, other women.

You're asking me how to get a guy who is racist, anti-Semitic,

who makes derogatory comments about women to his wife in front of their kids and the other women to get him to go to counseling?

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so go out to philadelphia pennsylvania and talk to christin hey christin what's up lady

hey john how are you i'm good how are you uh you know hanging by a thread oh god well i'm glad

that you called yeah Yeah, all good.

Yeah, so I called. I would just appreciate some maybe guidance or advice on how to ask my husband to go back to couples counseling with me after he made it clear. He will not do it again.

Well, so you probably can't because he seems pretty clear.

Why do you want him to go to counseling again?

I just see a big change in him, and I just don't see how we can move forward in our marriage if we don't talk to somebody about it.

What's going on?

I've noticed like in the past few years, maybe a year and a half or so, just like he's changed a lot as far as like he'll make, like,

racial remarks and like, massagistic remarks towards like me, other women, um, like anti-Semitic

remarks towards me. It's in front of our kids. Um, and I just, do you have Jewish heritage? I can't, I can't do it anyone. I'm sorry, say that again. Do you have Jewish heritage?

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