Am I the asshole for exposing my husband's affair with his girl best friend at a family barbecue

after his father told me to get over it?

Whoa.

Is that the title?

Yes.

That is so long.

That's the whole story.

Fam crazy.

Let's get into it.

So I 29 have been married to my husband who's 31 for five years.

We've had a good relationship overall, but there's always been one issue, his girl best friend, Megan.

She's been in his life since childhood and while I've always felt a bit uneasy about their

closeness, I trusted my husband and tried to be cool with it.

Megan is always around. She's at our house constantly. They text all the time. She even comes on

family vacations with us. Every time I brought up how their friendship made me feel uncomfortable,

my husband will brush it off saying she's practically a sister and that I was overreacting.

To make matters more complicated, my mother-in-law is amazing. She's always had my back and has told me

multiple times that if Megan made me feel uncomfortable, I should talk to my husband about setting

boundaries. On the other hand, my father-in-law has a very different attitude. He adores

Megan and has always said that she's part of the family and that I just need to deal with it.

He thinks my discomfort with their friendship is just jealousy. Wow. How can I be jealous of the

friend? What the heck? I don't know. Am I not the wife? Yeah. Sure. Fast forward to two months ago.

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