My Parents Expect Me To Pay Back My $114,000 Student Loan
The Ramsey Show Highlights
Ramsey Network
4.5 • 839 Ratings
🗓️ 10 February 2026
⏱️ 8 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | If your private student loans are in default, you're not out of options. Go to whyrefi.com |
| 0:08.1 | slash Ramsey. So I'm 30. My husband's 31. Our household income is about 235. My parents had set up a |
| 0:16.4 | 529 plan for me when I was young, which I ended up using to pay for the majority of my undergrad and grad |
| 0:22.6 | schooling. I did take out a couple of federal loans just to cover the remainder of my grad school, |
| 0:28.4 | which we still owe about 35,000 on. Recently, my parents asked me to pay them back, roughly $114,000 for the money that I used from my 25-29 plan. |
| 0:42.0 | What? |
| 0:42.5 | Come again now. |
| 0:44.0 | So is that the money they put in, or was that the balance of the account? |
| 0:48.8 | That was the balance of the account. |
| 0:50.7 | That's wild. |
| 0:51.8 | They don't even understand math. |
| 0:55.5 | Like, they may have put in 30 grand that grew to 114, and now they want you to pay the 114. |
| 1:01.1 | The interest. |
| 1:02.2 | They want you to cover the compound growth that cost them nothing. |
| 1:05.6 | Was this ever the plan? |
| 1:07.0 | Like, had this ever been stated to you ever at any point that you would have to pay this back? |
| 1:12.6 | I don't remember it that way, but my dad is a lawyer. |
| 1:17.0 | So naturally, he had created a promissory note. |
| 1:22.0 | You signed it? |
| 1:24.4 | Yeah, before I was. |
| 1:25.9 | Okay. |
| 1:26.3 | Have you read this note now as an adult? |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Ramsey Network, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Ramsey Network and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.

