My Marriage, My Way? Debra Fileta

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🗓️ 19 January 2024

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Do we really need that many pillows on the bed? Are we both doing the same amount of chores? Is there room for compromise? Author Debra Fileta provides a fresh perspective in the struggle, highlighting how the 'me, myself, and I' mindset even in small thi...

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0:00.0	So after 41 years of marriage, which has been awesome.
0:04.0	Okay, yes.
0:06.0	What would you say is different about me from maybe the beginning?
0:11.0	Oh, that's a good question.
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0:32.0	This is Family Life Today.com. This is Family Life Today. What would you say is different about me from maybe at the beginning?
0:46.1	You are way more other centered than self-centered.
0:49.8	Really?
0:50.8	Oh yeah.
0:51.8	You don't, what did you think I was going to say? I didn't know idea. I just wanted to know what you're thinking.
0:56.4	Okay, what would you say? That's kind of scary. No, I think we've talked about this many times. You are so affirming you believe in me.
1:06.7	I feel so believed in.
1:08.2	And that is one of the greatest gifts anyone could ever give.
1:11.3	I feel like you believe in me way more than I believe in myself and
1:15.0	that's a great place to be. I'm laughing because we have sitting across the table at our
1:18.7	studio a therapist who's probably analyzing us right now like like, oh boy, I can see all their childhood wounds
1:27.0	coming out.
1:28.0	I'm glad she didn't see us back in the day, hun.
1:30.0	Let's just say that.
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