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Sirius XM Triumph 111. Bonnie, welcome to the program. Hi. Hi, Dr. Laura. I've been a long time with her

for a time caller. Thank you. What's up? So do you want kind of the backstory to kind of

understand what's going on? I don't know how much to get from Dan. Nothing. The bag doesn't talk to me.

I haven't talked in 15 years. Well, I guess a quick rundown of my life story almost is

about my marriage specifically. I've been married for 25 years and with my husband for 30 years.

We have two children that are grown. One still living at home, one at college.

In March, I started to feel like something was wrong, which it was. He started in a fair in March.

Apparently, he had two intimate moments with the affair partner. I'm sure a lot of conversation

in between. He gave multiple reasons why he contributed to maybe causing that. He told me in

September that after me kind of bugging him since March about what is going on because I knew

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