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🗓️ 28 November 2019
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0:00.0 | You're listening to a special archive presentation of TED Talks Daily. |
0:05.8 | This TED Talk features author AJ Jacobs, recorded live at TED Salon, Brightline Initiative, 2018. |
0:15.5 | So I don't like to boast, but I am very good at finding things to be annoyed about. |
0:24.3 | It is a real specialty of mine. |
0:26.7 | I can hear 100 compliments and a single insult. |
0:30.6 | And what do I remember? |
0:32.1 | The insult. |
0:33.4 | And according to the research, I'm not alone. |
0:36.3 | Unfortunately, the human brain is wired to focus on the negative. |
0:41.7 | Now, this might have been helpful when we were cave people trying to avoid predators, |
0:46.9 | but now it's a terrible way to go through life. |
0:49.3 | It is a real major component of anxiety and depression. |
0:56.3 | So how can we fight the brain's negative bias? |
1:00.3 | According to a lot of research, one of the best weapons is gratitude. |
1:06.3 | So knowing this, I started a new tradition in our house a couple of years ago. |
1:11.3 | Before a meal with my wife and kids, I would say a prayer of Thanksgiving. |
1:17.8 | Prayer is not quite the right word. |
1:19.8 | I'm agnostic. |
1:21.8 | So instead of thanking God, I would thank some of the people who helped make my food a reality. |
1:28.8 | I'd say, I'd like to thank the farmer who grew these tomatoes, and the trucker who drove |
1:34.5 | these tomatoes to the store, and the cashier who rang these tomatoes up. |
1:38.9 | And I thought it was going pretty well, this tradition. |
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