My children are gaslighting my husband into thinking that I'm cheating on him with someone online,

and I'm not sure what to do about it. So my marriage has been having some issues lately.

Well, for the past three years to be exact, eventually I just quit nagging him,

or even asking him to help me more with anything, or even just to discuss anything outside of happy

basic conversations. Because if it was anything other than that, it would always end in a fight.

So I play video games and so does my husband. He raids at least three days a week,

and is on chat almost six days or more a week, while spending time with people on discord

for about four hours. Also, he plays games with friends he knows in real life.

I have some friends too I game with, and we all know each other in real life,

but because hanging out isn't feasible, mostly because my husband's jealous about

men and women being alone together, we don't ever really get together.

I've tried getting all my friends to come over to my house, both guys and girls with my husband,

to maybe play cards or to eat dinner and stuff, but nobody ever really wants to.

So about four of us go online and we play some games and play a few rounds.

Sometimes I play with someone one-on-one out of the four,

but I don't let it affect my family life, my parenting, or my chores.

I try to limit my gaming to maybe three times a week for only a few hours,

and only when it's late at night so that I've spent time with everyone.

Last night I was playing one of my games with my friends, and my eight-year-old comes up behind me,

and in front of the entire family says,

Such and such is gonna be our new daddy soon, and such and such in this situation is the friend in

which I'm playing a game with, whom this child has never met or even heard of.

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