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My husband has worked for his parents, his family farm for the last 31 years.

They're super controlling.

Is it crazy for me to expect the plan for succession? They control his salary,

his time. They even control the house we live in. Like we paid for half of the house and they

refused to put any of it in our names. Like we can't even remodel it. I went to them and because

it's built in the 70s. I have like electric blue bathrooms. I asked them even remodel it. I went to them and, because it's built in the 70s.

I have like electric blue bathrooms.

I asked them to remodel it and, or he wouldn't ask them.

I asked them by a letter.

They wouldn't even respond, but they told him that I wasn't grateful enough, um, for the house that they provided for us.

But we paid half of it. So it's so zero resentment, but they paid half you paid half. Yes. This is insane, Patty. You know that.

Nothing about this is normal. Okay. So for on one end of the spectrum that they control his

income and time, yada, that would be like having a boss, right? You're the company. You could say

Dave Ramsey controls my income and time. Yeah. So there's a level of like I'm working for

a person and they have set up a company in a certain way. But the housing situation for sure is not, yeah, you guys are not in a good spot because if the house is not in your name and you put half of your money into it, you legally have no assets, right?

From a home perspective.

Correct.

So what is your husband saying?

These are his parents.

Does he see that as not good for your future?

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