My Husband Won't Stop Lending His Mom Money

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🗓️ 2 March 2026

⏱️ 126 minutes

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0:19.3	From the Ramsey Network and the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio, this is the Ramsey Show,
0:26.2	alongside the fabulous, incomparable Jade Warshaw.
0:29.7	I'm just Ken.
0:31.6	That's a lyric, you know?
0:33.3	I'm sorry, Ken.
0:33.9	From the Barbie movie.
0:34.8	That's all I'm just trying to do a little shout-out, see if the audience is awake and paying attention. Fabulous studio audience today. Handsome looking group of people that we'll meet here in a little bit out there watching in the lobby. So let's get right to it. AAA 825-5-2-25. That's the number to jump in today. Sarah joins us in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
0:55.1	Sarah, how can we help?
0:57.4	Hey, guys.
0:58.5	So my husband and I keep on loaning his mom money.
1:02.2	She always pays it back to be fair.
1:04.5	But then she asks again, and I'm starting to really resent it.
1:07.8	And we disagree on whether to keep helping.
1:10.4	And I just don't know how to
1:12.1	go forward with my husband here. Oh boy. Obviously you don't want to. He feels he has to. Is that a
1:18.4	fair classification? Yeah. Tell me about the last conversation that you guys had about this.
1:26.2	How did it go? Well, it started because she asked for
1:31.6	$7,000 to fix her car. Oh, Lordy. Whoa, I thought this was in the $70 range to be completely...
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