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Well, I've got a bit of a, it's a bit of a financial and a bit of a personal question.

My husband and I entered into our marriage in 2017, and each came into our marriage with separate

assets, and I had a greater net worth than he did and

we did sign a pre-nup that said that our separate assets would remain separate.

After our marriage, we moved into my home, which I again, owned separately and it's been

our primary residence since.

And it has greatly increased in value and he's recently requested an amendment

to our pre-up that gives him an equitable stake in my home, which is at this time my greatest asset.

And has, without, you know, splitting hairs basically said that he's not going to contribute

to housing costs anymore, cost of living here as long as I'm not contributing any portion

of the equity over to him. And so I'm kind of at a loss as what to do financially, as I still have the greater net worth.

And I don't know what other married persons do in this kind of situation where he's not,

I don't feel that he's completely out of line since we are married and we do reside here,

but we had an agreement

and now he's feeling differently about it so he's throwing a grown-up temper tantra

he's throwing an absolute grown-up temper tantrum he's being a he's being a child I'm going to

take my ball and go home if you don't do what i say yeah that's not

how marriage is worked marriage is celebrate each other when when when when two people are let's take the

home equity off the table when um uh i'm i'm i'm a writer part of my job at Ramsey's a writing. My wife also writes.

She writes historical fiction.

It's never going to sell.

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