My husband to be wants everyone to know I'm not pure.

It's exactly what the title says.

I've been with my fiance for six years and we've been engaged for the past eight months.

I've been doing most of the wedding planning, but my fiance, let's just call him Ryan,

we'll give his input here and there. So about a month ago, Ryan out of nowhere said he was talking to some of his

coworkers and thinks that I shouldn't wear a white dress. This was totally weird to me.

Ryan's a very artistic guy so I figured this was more about how the photos would turn out or something along those lines, but I'm set on wearing white. I told him

this and I could see that he was annoyed but he let it go. Two weeks ago I finally

picked and paid for my dress and this caused a huge argument.

Ryan again came to me very annoyed.

He asked to see the dress I picked, but I said no because I wanted it to be a surprise

for our wedding day.

He asked me to at least tell him what

color it was and when I said white he threw a fit. I honestly do not see why this was a

big deal. Almost everyone wears white on their wedding day. When I asked him what

color he thought I'd be wearing, he told me I should wear red. Again, super weird to me.

I asked him why I'd wear red to our wedding and he told me that brides only wear white when they are pure.

For some background, Ryan and I started dating when I was 21 and he had just turned 20. He was a virgin when we met and I only had one other person who was my ex-boyfriend of four years throughout high school. This caused a lot of problems. The first year of our relationship, we almost didn't continue

dating because of how insecure he felt. After that first year, it was never a problem again until now, I guess.

He went to his mom about all of this thinking she

would convince me but she's on my side. So two nights ago Ryan and his mom and I

stood in our living room and argued about my sex life being shown in a dress.

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