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All right. Thank you. Subject, my husband's supportive secretary, dear Stephen Shirley,

I've been married for 14 years and we have two sons. My husband is a middle school principal

and I work full time in an office. Excuse me. My husband and I have a great social life and we used to focus on

keeping the romance alive in our marriage, but my boys are very active in sports now, so it's

hard to find time to hang out together. It has not affected my husband's social life at all, though.

He still hangs out after work, and I have a big issue with who he chooses to spend his time with.

He has been going out with his secretary to have a quick dinner or just to grab a drink as he says.

His secretary is married too, but her kids are grown so she doesn't have to rush home after work.

After the first couple of times, the two of them went out,

I went up to the school and had a talk with both of them.

She told me that they are merely co-workers and good friends that tell each other everything.

He told me that I should not have come up there and that there was nothing going on.

Later, when he got home, he was angry with me

and told me that I don't support who he is as a black man and the secretary is easy to talk to.

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