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tracy in louisville kentucky tracy how can we help hey thank you so much for taking my call

you bet um so my husband is a combat veteran who's been diagnosed with PTSD and

Scipital Effective Disorder.

And the longer that he's been out of the service, the more difficult it is for us to

communicate and be on the same page, especially when it comes to our finances.

Hang on a second. Take a breath. Take a breath. Take a breath. Take a breath. Take a breath. Take your breath.

I'm getting a cardio workout just sitting in my car. My heart's beating so far.

Oh, bless your heart. You're good. We're here with you. Take your time.

How long have you been sitting on this diagnosis?

Since 2016. Can I say the obvious out loud?

It is hard to love somebody and live with somebody with schizoaffective disorder, right?

Yeah.

And I still love him.

Of course you do.

You love him to the end of time.

But you've been through hell the last few years, haven't you?

Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah, it's hard.

And he's contemplating divorce.

Yeah.

Yep.

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