Hey Waffle Gang, I do hope you're well.

My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more Reddit stories.

And if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider?

Hit that like, subscribe, maybe that notification bell too.

Let's crack on with today's first story.

Much love, guys.

Now, today's first story comes from Accurate Swimmer

3-26, who says, my husband keeps ruining my birthday. How do I tell him without starting a fight?

It is my 41 female birthday today. My husband, 49 male of 19 years, can be an asshole. I don't need anyone to tell me that.

This shitty behavior is few and far between, though. Most of the time we get along, love each other,

sex is great and fairly frequent. He is very unselfish in bed, cleans up around the house,

ready to jump in and do whatever needs to get done with the kids.

Generally, a good husband with some bad qualities. The problem arises when we try to resolve

conflict and he's extremely defensive to the point it's aggressive, hence my post. Last year on my

birthday, I didn't tell him clearly enough what I wanted him to do

while we planned the evening. He ended up snapping at me, then refused to speak to me, and I ended

up crying, driving myself and our kids to the trampoline park. That's where I wanted to go. I love

it. He doesn't. This year I was clear. I wanted to do the pool or any another

type of venture park bias. Think Dave and Busters, but also with a zip line. He said,

oh no, don't plan anything. He has a surprise. While I was out running a quick errand with my daughter

today, he told me to come home

because the surprise was almost there.

...