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I'm an OGoki Starry Time podcast host. I don't care. I'm making sure that you stay here for the next two minutes. All right, I'll be detained for the two more minutes before we get into this episode. Yeah, we got some ads coming up. So stick around. Think around. This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. My husband neglects our daughters to hang out with his nephews. Well, maybe his nephews are cooler. Boys, boy time, boy time, boy time. Hi. Hi. I had an issue yesterday with my husband, which I'm conflicted about, regarding whether I was in the wrong. My husband and I have two daughters, six and eight.

My sister-in-law and her family live a couple of blocks away from us, and they have two boys, both nine years old. Her husband is in the army, so he's away from home a lot. By the way, this comes from user Reasonable Vast 2576. And if you want to submit your own stories, to the r slash okay story time suburbid it i'm

dakota i'm sophia i'm keon we're here to give you good advice goofily but we don't have all the

answers we just know what we would do so just tell us what you would do we're not ben well blunk

in the comments when he's away the boys come to our house often. They are great boys, respectful and

energetic. When they're here, my husband takes them to the park to play soccer. They always say

they have a great time, and my sister-in-law also thanks us for it. When they're not around,

my husband takes our daughters to the park, too. I often join them, and they also look forward

to it. However, when my husband takes the boys along,

even though we encourage our girls to go along, they tell me they do not enjoy it. Basically,

the boys get super competitive, and it's not fun the way it is when it's just them with my husband.

I take them along by myself, but apparently it is not as much fun. My husband can also only do some days of the

week, and when their father is away, the boys come on those days. Yesterday, I asked my husband to talk to

his sister and set some kind of limit to those days because our daughters like going to the park

with him for soccer, and it's not the same with me or when they go with him

and the boys. He looked, taken aback, and said that they're good kids. Their dad is away for long

stretches, and they seem to have fun there. I said, I never said they were not good kids, just that

our daughters felt like they were missing out. He said he'll encourage them more to come with them, and he'll make sure things don't get too competitive. That's not the issue, though. They just want to do stuff with their dad. I think that is the issue. I think you bring the girls and you say, go kick those boys. Go kick him. Give him a good kick. But like in the soccer, soccer way.

Yeah, kick them in the shin. Kick the soccer ball.

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