Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from two to five PM Eastern time on serious XM triumph 11. Lisa, welcome to the program.

Hi. Hi. How are you? Good.

My question is my husband has a older sister that was murdered 44 years ago and recently a reporter has attempted to contact the family and bring up.

He wants to do some investigating on it and stuff. And my husband got very upset about it and said he don't want to talk to this guy. He don't know him or anything and feels like he only wants to do it for entertainment purposes.

And I don't, my guess my question is I don't have a problem with my husband not wanting to speak to the lawyer, but the way he was so angry about it, it didn't seem like it was a good healthy type of anger.

So I don't know should I like try to. I'm sorry, you know, okay, I'm going to need some I'm a little lost some 40 years ago who murdered his sister? What really what was the situation?

Her boyfriend at the time they were going through a breakup and he shot her and then he fled the state and then there was never really any other investigation as far as the family knew.

But the reporter that contacted us is trying to tell us that there's been a warrant out all this time, but we have no concrete proof of that.

And how old was your husband at the time as sister was murdered? 19.

And how old was his sister? She was like 26, 27. Were they were they close? Yes.

Okay, maybe it was just a slip of the brain, but first you said it was a reporter and then you said it was a lawyer. You said I don't care if he doesn't want to talk to the lawyer.

So maybe I miss it heard that. No. So I got a little confused. So a reporter is trying is trying to solve the case.

Well, there are other people at the family hold on a second hold on a second. Okay, just trying to think out loud here. So if you could just give me a second.

Your concern is that he's very angry.

He's not about the sister getting murdered. And there are other unless your husband knew something that could help the case. There are other people who seem to be willing to talk about it.

So he doesn't really have to. But it's upsetting him tremendously. So at the time. What did the murder mean to the family besides, you know, we all feel bad?

What was going on in the family? Has he ever told you what was happening at the time with him with the family?

Well, she was the oldest and her previous relationship, she was divorced and her previous husband used to beat her.

So this typically happens when there's multiple men who are violent that there was violence in the original family.

So what do you know about violence in his original family?

He did tell me that his dad was quite quite a rough disciplinary when when he was little. I mean, he would point out and.

Okay, when there is violence in a family, you often have at least one child acting out by collecting more violent people because as horrible as it seems, obviously, it's the familiar.

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