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My husband and I lived in our home for 15 years. We had an interest rate of 2.7%.

Our mortgage payment was $1,800. We decided to jump to a different neighborhood because our neighborhood

had been changing a good bit in terms of a variety of different things, not going the right

direction. And we jumped on a new home, on a different house. It's an an older home it needs some work um we now have a

almost four thousand dollars a month um mortgage payment six percent interest rate and we did not

really sit down and do our homework and the house really doesn't meet our functional needs do you

have two people who work um corporate out of the home every day,

and we're missing some functional space.

And I kind of freaked out because our other home more than met our needs for long term.

And my husband got angry and basically said, you need to leave. I'm so angry with you over

this. And he's like, if you don't leave, then I'm going to leave. About the house, he's angry

with you about the house? Yes. Because it was your idea? Yes. And so then we rented another home in the area because we're bound to

this area for schools for our daughter. Okay. And so now that's a $2,750 like rent payments. And I still haven't moved in there and I called the lady and she

will let me out so I've only paid two months and I haven't moved in because I need his help

because I can't move a bed et cetera by myself so my question is, how long have you been married?

We've been married like almost 23 years. And we have no car loads. We have maybe a thousand

dollars on the credit card. We have no other debt. We've always been. But this isn't about the

debt. It can't be. And it's't about the debt it can't be and it's not

about the house this is an ad for better help one of the most important things i've ever done in

my life as a husband as a dad as a community member as a neighbor is to finally break down and go see

a therapist it's not just for major traumas,

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