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My husband and I have been together for 26 years. We have three sons, and he worked as a software developer,

and I'm a stay-home mom for 20 years. And he handled all the monies, and I take care of the kids.

So it worked quite well until eight years ago.

I kind of expect him to step up for our teen son, but that didn't happen. So I wasn't happy

and then our marriage turns out. So I, and then since then I no longer allowed to know the household

finance. He gave me a credit card to buy food and necessity for the kid and, you know,

for the family.

But I don't know how much he makes anymore.

And he doesn't even ask me to sign the, um,

text return filing.

Ooh.

So I really don't know what's going on.

And I asked him, um, well, during the COVID, he almost died at the hospital. And I asked him, well, during the COVID, he almost died at the hospital and I asked

him, you know, the password to pay the bills on his laptop and, you know, he refused to do that and then

I have to bring his laptop to the hospital.

Wow.

But then after he got better and he got home and I told him that, you know,

I should know our finance and just in case if he goes to the hospital again and he said,

you know, he'll, he said I will figure out after he died. Oh my gosh. Yes. So we have been

leaving like a housemate and I take care of the kids and like a married single mom and he's like a married bachelor to over checkout.

So I don't know what I should do from this point on and, you know, this is my only marriage and I have, you know, like, I think this is it for me, but then I don't know how you turn this thing around.

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