Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern time on serious XM triumph 11. Sarah, welcome to the program.

Hi, Dr. Laura. It's such an honor to talk to you.

Thank you.

Yes, and I for you.

Well, I have a situation I just could use your help with. I am basically I have a wonderful husband.

Who leaves the post it notes and will hold my hand in public and a lot of the things that you were talking about and I'm so thankful for him.

He helps out around the house a lot. Plants great get away for us, but there's just this one part of my life where I feel like I'm missing out because he seems to get very anxious socially.

And so may I make a comment here?

Sure.

You're never going to find a guy who does it all who is a social as you'd like to be in your life with him.

And who is loving attentive who is a hard worker makes it living that supportive is considered in general.

You're never going to get it all every marriage has a compromise that you have to make in your head.

Now, if you think that the quality of your life is going to suffer so much that the rest of his qualities don't make up for it, then you should leave.

I don't recommend that.

I more recommend that you realize everybody who is married everybody.

He has made a sacrifice to marry you and put up with how social you like to be when he's more of a home buddy.

So he's putting up with you being disappointed and annoyed with him and being a pressure on him.

He's disappointed with that, but he stays with you because you have lots of redeeming qualities.

That's a good point.

He really does. I am involved in things and he will come and support me.

And I know I'm putting him outside of his comfort zone to do that.

Now, you're not putting him anywhere.

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