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Thank you, nephew's subject. My husband is a thug and a prominent pastor.

Okay. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for seven years. I'm 43 and my husband is 38, but he acts like the world owes him something and always has a chip on his shoulder.

He is argumentative and a wannabe thug.

He grew up in a rough area and he had to make it out of the hood on his own, but he won't

acknowledge that he's in a

much better place spiritually and financially now. He will preach a good sermon on Sunday, but

Monday through Saturday, he curses, drinks, and he's a womanizing thug. He curses like a sailor,

and he loves to brag about fighting, and who's behind he could whoop if he had the chance.

He's cheated on me twice.

The second time it happened, I checked out of the marriage.

I would love to divorce him, but I can't because he is my sole source of income.

I got laid off in April of last year,

and I'm having a hard time finding a full-time job.

He stands in the pulpit on Sundays

while I sit amongst the two or more women

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