This is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

All right, let's go to Migdala in Baltimore. What's going on?

Hi, thank you for taking my call. Of course. It's Magdalia, right? McDolia. I knew that.

I knew that. Yeah. Idalia, right? McDolia. I knew that. I knew that.

I knew that. I, you know what? I keep, I was thinking about amygdala. I'm sorry.

I trolled John, I got to be honest. Before we went on air, I just kept saying amygdala,

amygdala, thinking he would screw it up. And that was right. Well done, George. There you go. What's your question? He's one of my best friends, and that's what friends do.

So what's up?

So my husband is being extremely insistent on my taking money out of my retirement in order to cover immediate costs that we have to be incoming in during the summer, as well as then possibly

take care of some more debt.

Are you guys retired?

No.

How old are you too?

I'm actually 60, and I've been home, I've been home.

I've been home with the children for the last 10 years.

And I've just started looking at the possibility of, I've been exploring jobs.

I'm working on my resume.

And I have lots of experience. So I think I would be able to get a job.

And I actually have up until I left work I was always the higher earner in our family and I don't want to take money out of my retirement

to cover the next couple of months is this an emergency situation do you guys

not have enough income to cover your bills that is correct wow what happened what happened

we're not on same page um we you know i do the budget and, this is what it is and we just don't connect.

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