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I've been stuck in kind of like a situation where I'm newly married and I don't believe in date

and I really love what you guys preach.

I'm trying to get my husband on board.

He has, when we got married, he has like over 3540k in date.

And that's okay.

So I was trying to encourage him to get out of date, use my salary to pay his date, but he currently lost his job in last year,

and he has no motivation in trying to find a new job. So I'm always trying to, like, my money,

all I do is just pay bills, mortgage, and by the time I'm done paying, there is nothing left. So it just

feels like I'm never getting ahead.

Wow.

So sorry, Mary.

I mean, I can think of one way to stay motivated.

Maybe providing for your new wife.

Is that not on his radar?

Providing for his new wife?

You?

You said you just got married to this guy. He doesn't have a job. You're struggling to pay bills, and you say he has no motivation to work. Yeah, he lost his job, so his excuse is like, oh, I can't. Did he get fired? What happened? Is he in a depressive state because of this? Yeah, he got fired, and he's kind of really more, he's kind of really confident that I'll get a new job and he'll only apply like one job in a month and it's been six months

now and really like no motivation at all.

If he gets out of his 401k to pay some of the bills like to pay some of his day he

took a withdrawal from his 401k he to pay bills and cover his debt payments yes because

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