brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today um i just wanted to get

days input on a situation um so my husband and i we have four kids who are a blended family i have a

daughter he has a son and then we have two boys together um his father died and he inherited some land from him.

It's family land.

And so when we are talking about inheritance for our children, he wants, and understandably

so, the land to go to be split between the three boys because he wants to keep it in

his bloodline.

And so I am fine with that, but where we disagree is on how to do inheritance for my

daughter.

He thinks the land should be not even taken into consideration when we do inheritance.

So monetary value, et cetera, shouldn't matter.

And so what we're kind of looking at is actually selling our current home and then using

the money that we make to move to that land and then build on it, in which case we would

live out the rest of our days there and put our money into it.

And I think that that also should be taken into consideration. But he thinks that the boys should get the land split

between them and then whatever else inheritance we have left should be split equally between

all four kids. And so I just kind of wanted your opinion on that. Wow.

Does it occur to him how hurtful it is when he says that?

I don't think so.

If you said that's hurtful, you're a butt?

I haven't said that.

I try to talk very nicely to him. I know, but that's what my wife would have said.

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