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24 um and by the grace of god um as of the holiday season of this year we are reconciling and

god's restoring our marriage wow yeah it's really beautiful um my question, has to do with, so when we were married before, I was not great in the financial department.

My husband was with the same company for almost 20 years, hard worker always provided.

I kind of jumped from job to job, wasn't the best with the money,

racked up a $10,000 credit card, all of that. So over the past year, while we were apart,

I graduated from FPU and have followed Dave Ramsey. And I'm working with a company right now to

pay off my credit card, so I'm hopeful that

within the next couple months that will be paid off. So I will myself be debt-free.

My question really is, I know that Dave is pretty vocal about his opinion that when a couple

is married, that there is no my money, it's our money.

So understandably, given my past behavior, my husband is a little hesitant to go back to commingling our funds.

So I'm just kind of looking for some guidance on how he and I can navigate that this time,

just, you know, as we, that trust is built back up and maybe just some

guidance on how to navigate this this season what other trust was broke in your previous time together

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