My grandparents took my room on my honeymoon because they're my elders. But I just got

married. My family is Asian. My husband's side is white. My husband and I got married and are

treating his side of the family and my side to a one week all expense paid vacation to Borah Bora

as a pre-family honeymoon before going off on

our real one. We were able to rent out half a side of the bungalows, and only one villa was in that

section. My husband and I took the villa. The bungalows are a 1,000 square feet, one bedroom,

option of a kingbed or two queens, one bathroom and outdoor space

kind of deal. We made sure everyone was accommodated for and everyone had a comfortable living situation.

Our villa is a 4,000 square foot, one bedroom, one bath, including sauna living room, a grand outdoor space,

with an outdoor bathtub, pool, and a slide to get into the ocean.

We haven't even made it a whole 24 hours here yet, and a fight has already broken out.

During dinner, my cousin mentioned wanting to come over and use our slide.

My grandparents asked what we were talking about, and asked to see pictures of our room.

Well, they saw my villa and demanded that we trade rooms with them, as no elders should be

made to, quote, slave and live as, quote, peasants, while their grandchildren get nicer rooms.

This is Bora Bora we're talking about. No one is living as a peasant here. There was only one

villa available in our section. Had I given it to my grandparents, I think it would have been

offensive to my husband's grandparents. And if there were three, we would have given it to both

grandparents and one for ourselves. But unfortunately, there wasn't, so we didn't. I mentioned this and they still demanded the villa.

I obviously objected and said, I felt as though my husband and I should have that room,

as this is a vacation with family to celebrate our marriage.

Plus, we paid for this entire trip.

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