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Am I the Jerk?

My Grandma's Dying Wish was to TROLL ME from the Grave... and it Worked

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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0:00.0

My grandma's dying wish was to troll me from the grave, and it worked. My grandmother was an

0:06.9

immigrant who had to leave school at about age 12, after her own mother died. As the eldest daughter,

0:13.1

it was her responsibility to take care of her younger siblings. Consequently, she never learned

0:18.1

more than basic reading and math, and although she married and

0:21.5

had kids of her own, she worked outside the home to add a household income, often doing cleaning

0:26.9

and other low-wage work. Of her own children, most were reasonable people, but her youngest

0:32.7

daughter was a complete parasite. She had no problem taking whatever she could from her mother,

0:38.3

my grandmother, even having her mother co-sign on debts and then leaving her to pay for it.

0:43.5

Despite not having much education, my grandmother was a wise person in her own way,

0:48.5

but not when it came to her own kids, and especially not her mooch daughter.

0:53.1

She just couldn't stop letting her daughter

0:55.0

misuse her. She ultimately became ill with cancer. Her kids took care of her except for,

1:00.9

you guessed it, the youngest parasite daughter. On her deathbed, she told her oldest daughter

1:06.0

she was worried about the mooch, and related where she kept all her money. It wasn't much, maybe 700 bucks or so.

1:13.0

And then she told her oldest daughter that when she died, to give it all to the mooch. After my

1:18.1

grandmother died, the oldest daughter had to stomach giving her own mother's last dollars to her

1:22.8

miserable vampire of a sister. But to make it more tolerable, she decided to do it by sending it in installments

1:29.5

of $10 a month. So that's what she did for years, just $10 a month every month. Not enough to

1:36.2

splurge on anything and not even enough to make a difference in her life. Almost as if it were nothing.

1:42.3

I always admired my older aunt. She knew how to hold a grudge.

1:46.4

Mooch, more or less, continued in her old ways, trying to coast off her siblings, but was not

1:51.7

very successful. She got my father to co-sign for a credit card or loan or something, and left him

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