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Coach Corey Wayne

My Girlfriend Asked For A Pause In Our Relationship

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2023

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

What it means and what you should do when your girlfriend asks for a pause in the relationship.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 28 year old viewer who has read 3% Man, 2 times and has been dating his girlfriend for 2 years. Recently, he had leg surgery and was out of contact for a few days. His girlfriend started ignoring him and then asked for a pause in their relationship. She said she felt like he didn’t care about the relationship. However, what he says and what his girlfriend is saying and doing do not line up. He asks what he can do to turn things around because he feels like chasing her now to fix things. He asks my opinion on how to turn it around.

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Transcript

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Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter.

0:54.6

And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be, my girlfriend asked for a pause in our relationship.

1:01.6

Well, that's obviously suboptimal.

1:04.8

I've got an email.

1:05.5

This is from a guy.

1:06.7

He's 28 years old.

1:08.2

He says he's read 3% man two times so far,

1:12.3

and he's been dating his girlfriend for two years.

1:15.9

And so he said recently he had some leg surgery,

1:20.0

and he says he basically didn't call or contact his girlfriend for like three days.

1:25.3

And then after that, she basically wanted a pause in their relationship.

1:29.4

And so the way the email is written, he kind of makes it sound like he was doing a great job

1:34.1

at courting her, but as soon as the matter, they had been together two years, soon as he

1:38.8

has some leg surgery, she's ready for a pause.

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