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What We Said

MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME

What We Said

Dear Media

Society & Culture, Media, Health & Fitness, Whatwesaid, Dear

4.89.6K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of “wait… how do I handle this?” conversations.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a dear media production.

0:09.7

Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to the What We Said podcast, everybody.

0:14.9

Happy Friday.

0:17.3

End of November.

0:18.7

December's right upon us.

0:20.7

It's coming. You can't stop it. It's going to be here. This year's flown by. And I'm so excited for the holidays. I'm ready. I'm locked in. I hope everybody had a great Thanksgiving with the fam. Or alone. Or alone. Or with friends. We'll be with friends. Yeah. But, you know, those are your chosen family. So true. Mm-hmm. I mean, I still love my family as well, but I'm like, I've chosen new family. I hope the flights weren't too bad. Oh, gosh. As we record this before it happens. Yeah. We're going to do advice today. We're going to get into it.

0:54.6

We both have our glasses on. Classes in session. We're ready. I was saying that this

1:01.9

outfit is fulfilling my rich mom fantasy. It's giving. I feel... It's giving everything. Thank you. Chelsea did

1:09.3

pick it out. It's your best outfit yet.

1:12.2

No, Chelsea helped me style this and I love it. And I was just, you know what I was thinking?

1:19.6

And I made a video, a TikTok about this. Maybe I posted it. Maybe I didn't. Who knows? Because I have a

1:26.4

mental block with TikTok where I, like, I film so many random

1:29.0

videos, then I just don't post any of them. I don't know what is wrong with me. If you don't post it immediately, like the thing is, if I don't post it immediately after I record it, it's not going up. It's true. That's what it is. But anyway, these silk pants that I'm wearing, I got at an estate sale like six months ago. Yeah. Oh. And I think they're from

1:45.9

the 80s or 90s. It makes more sense that they'd be from the 90s now that I'm saying it. But I was

1:50.8

thinking the reason that I'm feeling so like, you know, rich mom, elegant, luxurious is probably

1:57.5

because I'm channeling this iconic woman that when I put these pants on and then I, you know, got the rest of my outfit on, her energy is living through me. And that's why I'm feeling genuinely. Like, I can't explain it. When I put this outfit on, I was like, I feel rich. And I think it's because that woman was rich. And let's not get into styling again.

2:17.8

No, we won't.

2:18.2

But that is the power of having a good outfit.

2:22.0

And this morning, I changed 5,000 times because I was not feeling like a rich, cool person at all.

2:27.6

I was feeling like an ugly loser.

2:29.0

So I had to change.

2:30.1

And I'm glad I did because I wore this.

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